Goldilocks and the Line

Out here, we are all like Goldilocks... yes the curious girl with the porridge and the three bloodthirsty bears who just happen to talk and live in a cabin where they all have their own way of doing stuff. We keep trying new things until we find the right one. This one is too hot, this one is too cold, this one is just right... wait a second... there's raisins in it!

Now the question is, do you eat the raisins and keep on eating the porridge out of respect for the work that went into it... enjoying the taste, but still knowing that the raisins are there messing with you... or do you go out there and find the right bowl of porridge? Settle, or do you keep on going?

Well screw the porridge. So I'm back to the same topic. The person you are currently seeing has all these great things about them, but there are just a couple of things that get in the way. Again, you put time, energy and patience into it, but where is that line where you say "that's enough".

Usually, when people like each other, they continue to like each other in the beginning of the relationship. If things should arise, hopefully, it isn't at the very start. If they do happen to pop up, then BAM! ... that's a sign that you should get the hell out of there... or you can work it out, whatever sinks your ship... or floats your boat- whatever.

Or... you can actually see where things take you. Have faith. In many cases, faith is the only thing that keeps you from going crazy. Have faith that it will get better. Overcome your emotions, talk it out... meet in the middle. Be okay with the bowl of porridge at an early age... enjoy the taste... you might even grow to like the raisins. Do you even know what kind of poridge you like- I mean really?

Can you go back to the porridge after you let it grow cold? Can you heat it up again? Do you even want to? Do you want to put up with the raisins? What do you want?... I guess you should take your time and think about it. Ask God for guidance if it helps.

Yeah, you just read a blog about porridge.